You Know Who You Are!

Finding you has been the luckiest day in my life so far.
All this time I thought I've always had the best friendships in the world but boy, did I know nothing.
Then you came along, poking and prodding me, calling me names, telling me I'm alright, making sure I know I am a strong, beautiful person. You don't say much but I can see the me in your eyes, the person I want to be.
The miracle is, I am that person already when I'm with you.
You see right through me and find no fault in me. Because of you I've embraced the whole me and happy with the way I am like never before.
I know I have asked you before but I still wonder what in the heck you saw in me that someone as cool as you think me cool too :)

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I Stole Another Girls Picture.

I am an African-American girl who is pretending to be a blonde blue eyed girl online. I found her pictures and used them for my profile so that guys would want to talk to me online. Mostly I just did it because no one really wants to talk to chubby girls and I liked the confidence boost I got from their compliments. I know it was wrong, but I never meant to hurt anyone. I had never started anything serious or even talked to someone under my alias for more than a day or two, it was all just innocent conversations with random guys who were probably lying too. But then I met this guy who was different. He was an honest and sweet and we have so much in common that we fell in love. I never meant for it to happen, and I didn't start talking to him with the intention of starting a serious relationship. But now its almost a year later and we've been dating for 7 months. I honestly love him with all of my heart and the guilt from lying is tearing me apart. I've tried to break it off with him so many times but he just won't let go. I know this is all of my fault and I don't want to just disappear and leave it alone because I know it would devastate him.
I've convinced myself that it doesn't matter that I'm lying to him because we could never be with each other anyway. (We live on opposite sides of the country and are both really close to our families so neither of us wants to move) And because I've never lied about anything but my name and what I look like ( which I know are two very basic and important things so who am I kidding) but he always says that he fell in love with my personality. That my looks are just a bonus and that he loves who I am more than what I look like. I know that I should tell him, or that I should end the relationship so he won't waste his life with me, but I just don't know how. If I tell him best case scenario, he hates me then forgives me and says he wants to be with me. But that won't really change anything because we still can't be with each other in person, because of how far away we live. So why should I hurt him? What's the point if it doesn't change anything except ease my guilt? Doesn't that make me selfish? I don't know anymore. Can someone please help me? I honestly believed I was a good person before all this but now I just don't know. Am I a sick individual? Is there something wrong with me that I could lie to the person I love for so long?

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Style Tips for New Moms.

The happiest moment in a woman’s life is when her baby is born. The new born little darling is most definitely the biggest priority of your life and your whole life takes a new turn and it starts revolving around your little angel. Often, new moms forget how much important it is for them to look after themselves after their baby is born. The internal health is very much important but one thing that needs to be kept in mind is that new moms should also take care of their outlook too. There are many fashion tips for new moms and they can follow them after their baby is delivered. The fashion tips for new moms will most definitely make you feel great from inside as well is from the outside.

When it comes to fashion tips for new moms, it is necessary that new moms feel great not just for their baby but for themselves too. This feeling of happiness will definitely make the new moms look trendy and stylish even after the birth of their baby. One of the most important and foremost fashion tips for new moms is that they should avoid wearing tight clothes. As your body has gone through a major change in the recent past, it needs to relax naturally and it takes some time too. So, always go for the attire that is a little loose. The body is definitely not in a perfect shape after your baby is born in most cases and there is nothing to worry about that. Just go for clothes with some flare. This will also make you feel comfortable at the same time.

Wearing clothes that are sloppy is definitely a big NO. That completely ruins your whole look and in order to look good, new moms should never go for baggy and sloppy clothes as they do not look stylish at all and give you an untidy look too. For casual dresses, the perfect fashion tips for new moms are to wear a nice pair of jeans that is not too tight around your waist. Go for the jeans that can be adjusted around your waistline so that you do not have to feel any discomfort while handling your baby in the first one or two months after your delivery. Moreover, perfect jeans are very comfortable and are a big trend for fashion tips for new moms.

When it comes to wearing tops, new moms look really cute with tops that are flowery and have beautiful patterns on them. You can go for light colors as they look really nice on new moms when it comes to fashion tips for new moms. One thing that should be kept it minds in terms of fashion tips for new moms are that your body size is not permanent in the first few months. You will feel a lot of changes in your size. Let it be your breasts or the other parts of your body, the sizes will change. So get the sizes that are not too tight or too loose. Also, shawls, cardigans and long sweaters are a perfect option in fashion tips for new moms as they give a very classy and mature look.

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Take Off your Hat for a Perfect Style.

Winter style is a new scenario in recent times; the companies have realized that individuals need that image to be maintained during winters, hence emerged with winter style. The regular Pakistani winter style includes scarves and shawls but that is slowly making its way out of the scene since they’re prone to making your hair a disaster during the season.

 

The new winter style includes hats, caps and the like. The Pakistani winter style has also adopted the kind from the west but you need to adopt a winter style that will allow your hair some breathing space. Fedora hats make up the perfect winter style; in fact, the Pakistani winter style is slowly adopting the kind of hats too. This winter style is known for its roomy structure.

 

This might not quite be the preferred winter style knowing that the Pakistani winter style has adopted numerous kinds of Western styles. The roomy winter style is quite untypical of Pakistan but you could always be the trendsetter.

 

Styling your hair prior to wearing your winter style is important. Shower and apply a small quantity of spray and gel and put the remaining in a small container so that you can style later. Avoid using too much or your Pakistani winter style can look like a mess.

To flaunt your new Pakistani winter style, use pins and headbands to pull back your front locks neatly so that your hair doesn’t fall out of your winter style onto your face. Tie your hair up in a bun with a toilet paper placed underneath this winter style to prevent flatness.

Do remove it or your Pakistani winter style may end up looking like a disaster. Enhance your winter style with a net to wrap up your bun. This will make your Pakistani winter style look more sophisticated and chic; and, you wouldn’t even have to run to the rest room to fix your look before you flaunt your new Pakistani winter style.

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